CHECK OUT MY LATEST SEGMENT ON MY EXPERIENCE WITH ONLINE DATING!

I'm trying my hand at online dating, and thus far it's been terrible...well the first experience I had! Want to know more about my experience...


CHECK THIS OUT---------> http://www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter/2014/12/26/online-dating-disaster-what-the-holiday-special

ONLINE DATING DISASTER!!

CHECK OUT MY NEW SEGMENT FOR THE STORY!!!

http://tobtr.com/s/7220081


ENJOY!!

SEGMENT @ 1 EST WWW.BLOGTALKRADIO.COM/COFFEENOFILTER

FOR REAL THIS TIME! IT'S SET UP AND EVERYTHING!!! YOU DEFINITELY DON'T WANT TO MISS THIS!! ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE IN NEED FOR A LAUGH

MERRY CHRISTMAS HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!! **SPECIAL SEGMENT TONIGHT**

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL MY TTD PEEPS! I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GREAT HOLIDAY SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR LOVED ONES!!! THIS YEAR HAS BEEN SO CRAZY AND I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S OVER ALREADY!! HAD SOME HIGHS AND LOWS, BUT I WOULDN'T TAKE BACK ANYTHING I DID THIS YEAR! THERE DEFINITELY WILL BE A SEGMENT TONIGHT! I PROMISE 100% IT WILL BE A SEGMENT TONIGHT!

I HAVE A CHRISTMAS DATE LATER THIS AFTERNOON, SO I'M GONNA RELAX BEFORE I HAVE TO GET READY FOR THAT! I WILL CATCH Y'ALL LATER THIS EVENING FOR A CHRISTMAS EDITION SEGMENT!

LOVE YOU ALL!!!!

FEELINGS SUCK AND WHY DO I HAVE THEM?!

When it comes to matters of the heart, I've tried to keep mine protected. I like you have had my heart broken from different things in life (deaths, favorite band breaking up, not getting into the school of my choice)...just to name a few! 

Sometimes I wish I could turn my feelings on and off to protect myself from heartache. But then I have to remember that I'm an emotional being!! I want to say to my feelings FUCK YOU FEELINGS AND THE WAY YOU GOT ME FEELING SOMETIMES!!

Quick Tip: If you are waiting for someone you kinda like to reply, and it seems like forever, TURN THE DAMN PHONE OFF AND OCCUPY YOUR TIME WITH SOMETHING ELSE! 

When I first start liking someone, I have to remind myself to not get TOO EXCITED!! Damn feelings again...

I'll update this later!!!

New Segment Alert!

I will be recording a new segment today for CoffeeNOfitler with Denisha around 1-2 p.m. EST. Will update this blog when I'm about to record.




Care to join me for another segment? www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter :)

Additions to my blogs and radio show!

I was having a conversation with a friend yesterday about global issues as well as issues locally. Here at CoffeeNOfilter, I've tried to steer away from certain topics. On the other hand, I think the issues that are going on in the world today need to be talked about more. As you all know, I have a lot to say about my personal life. You may not know that I also like to talk about world issues, and I'm big on World Peace. I have decided that I will start incorporating more news in my radio show, as well as on this blog.


Don't worry, I'm not giving up my regular segments and becoming strictly "news reporting radio". The topics will be as usually, what I like to talk about, what's pissing me off, or what needs more exposure in my opinion. I would like for you to share your opinions with me as well. What's going on in your community that should be talked about more..both positive and negative. The news shows a lot of negativity in the world, and it will be like that there's world peace.


On my blog, I would like you to contribute to what I want to call "weekly news reports". There's people that read my blog(s) from all over the world, and I don't know what's going on all over the world. If we could work together more, and try to make a difference in the community/globally, we will be on the path to world peace.


Are you excited?

Trying Online Dating! 0_0

I never thought I'd be one to say I have an online dating profile...

When it comes to dating and relationships, I'm neutral when it comes to being single. Seriously, I have no problem being by myself, taking myself out, dancing alone, etc. I've worked hard on maintaining "self-love" and I think everyone should do so. No one is going to love me better than me right?

Ok that was corny as hell, but true! I mean come on..do you want to be in a relationship where you love the person more than yourself. I sure don't, THAT'S UNHEALTHY!

Since I've been able to download apps again, I figured why not try them out and see what happens. I'm a little skeptical about the online dating thing, though I know people that are in relationships from them. I've been hit up for a 'DTF' (down to fuck) sessions with guys than actual relationships. The thought that you want to have sex with me isn't going to make me say "Oh yeah baby, bring that ass over her!" I much rather bite a bat's head off!

Also with this online dating, I will like someone and they like me back but won't get the courage to message me. I'm a direct person, so I don't mind, but damn what the hell! Ugh, it's more work to create a profile or my likes and dislikes, post a couple pictures and attempt to draw in some people.

Looks aren't everything, but DAAAAAAMMMMMNNNN! I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect, hell I'm not really looking..but if I can't look at you in the eyes during a conversation and tune out 0_0 what does that say. For instance, that Hot or Not app is hilarious and such a self-absorbed app that I'm apart of. I know it's shallow as fuck, but I was just curious to know who thinks I'm the Sugar Honey Ice Tea! Bhahahah, it was one of those apps that I was against, and then apart of. I'm terrible! :p

Another con about these dating sites are that, your perfect match isn't PERFECT! Taking that questionaire to see who you match up with is crap to me. I don't want someone that likes everything I like. I won't be able to explore different avenues with that person. There's plenty of experiences I have yet to experience and I want to try new things. Similar interest yes, but that 100% compatible is crap. If it were true, I'd be getting hit on all day bhahahah.

I may stay on it for a couple more days, who knows...I might meet someone..And if that happens I will definitely be updating this blog.

How do you feel about online dating?
Have you tried it out?
What were some of the pros and cons you found?
Have you met someone through an online dating site?

I'm curious to know...

TBA (UPDATE)

YAY, THE SEMESTER IS OVER!!!! IF YOU HAVEN'T CHECKED OUT MY LATEST BLOG ABOUT ONLINE DATING...CHECK IT OUT! ALSO NEW SEGMENT OF COFFEENOFILTER WITH DENISHA TOMORROW AFTERNOON!!! WWW.BLOGTALKRADIO.COM/COFFEENOFILTER

I just wanted to make this post short and sweet...

The semester is almost OVER! FINAL WEEK!

I will have more #coffeenofitlerwithdenisha coming very soon! (Hopefully this week if I get my work done in a timely fashion)!!!!


I HOPE YOU ARE ALL DOING WELL WHEREVER YOU ARE IN THE WORLD! THIS HAS BEEN A GREAT YEAR FOR COFFEENOFILTER AND TALK TIME WITH DENISHA! CAN'T WAIT TO BLOG MORE AND GET MORE THINGS DONE!

TALK SOON!!!

LOVE YA,

NISHA

FOLLOW MY BLOGS!! LET'S BE FRIENDS!! UPDATES ON OLD BLOGS!! NEW RADIO SEGMENTS!!

I'm almost at 1,000 views on my blog and I'm super excited! If you haven't followed my blog, go ahead and do so. That way you are always up to date about what's going on in my life. If you have any social media outlets you want me to know about let me know. 

FOLLOW ME:

FB: /coffeenofilterwithdenisha

Blog Talk Radio: /coffeenofilter

Twitter: @ninibonitachica 

Blogger: (2nd blog) /coffeenofilterwithdenisha

I will be updating older blogs because some things have changed since I started blogging in a hotel room 2 years ago. As always what would you like to read on my blog, or how could I reach you better? 

I will hopefully be doing a radio segment today, but stay tuned on my FB page to know if that happens. Hopefully the weather doesn't act too cray that it messes with my internet connection!!!

Lastly...

It's 6:05 a.m. where I am right now, and I'm hoping this snow doesn't mess up my plans on going home for the holiday. It's like everything is going South this week, but I'm keeping my head up regardless! I think it's important to shine the light on the darkness. 

I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT HOLIDAY! IF YOU DON'T CELEBRATE IT AND YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO THAT DAY, THEN RELAX AND GEAR UP FOR BLACK FRIDAY!....UNLESS YOU DON'T DO THAT EITHER THEN HAVE A GREAT COUPLE DAYS OFF...IF YOU DO HEHE!!

TALK SOON,

DENISHA :)

UPDATES! SCHOOL, LIFE, BLOGGING, RADIO SHOW, ETC!!! Check out my other blog!

Hey Peeps,

I hope you've missed me as much as I've missed you! The semester is almost over, but there's still work that needs to be done. I'm currently working on my last paper for my Acting class, and I've enjoyed this class so much! It's definitely something I'm going to continue to do. I have met some cool individuals in this class this semester, and it's going to be bittersweet come final day. My business class is coming along as well, and I have a couple weeks left for that class as well. This is an 'Exploring the Future' course, and I have to say it's AMAZING!  I love to talk about the future because that's something I think about majority of the time. My favorite thing about this course is definitely the discussion board. It's a great time to put your thoughts out there and see what others think. That's probably why my acting teacher encourages me to always speak because I always have something great to say...that's what she said (not tooting my horn)! 

Life is pretty alright at the moment. You have to take the good with the bad, but I'm INCREDIBLY THANKFUL TO WAKE UP EACH DAY! THANK YOU GOD!! 

In October I went to a concert with my friend Chelsea and saw this band called Walk the Moon and (opening band) Public! I love this band! If you are looking for something different to listen to, check them out.

 I went to the Pitch Perfect Sing-A-Long this week and it was so much fun! Can't wait for the second movie to come out! 

This weekend I'm going to Spoken Word! I love listening to poetry live, and I can't wait! I hope it's a place I will always go to. I love coffee and coffeehouses are cool! 

I know I haven't blogged in a couple weeks, but I'm glad you are still supporting me. The more down time I have to put out a blog post, or radio show I will! I don't want to put out content I'm not 100% about, nor do I want you to read/listen to me talk about something I'm not passionate about. I have some EXCITING content coming very soon on my other blog CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha here on Blogger.com so definitely check and support me on that blog too. Don't forget to check out my radio show at blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter because I'll have some cool stuff coming on there soon. 

Lastly, what would you like me to talk about on my blog(s)? I'm very curious to know what everyone else is thinking. What's going on in your neck of the woods that you want people to be aware of? 

If you blog, leave a comment with your blog! I want to read it! 

Making my blog better...

How can I make my blog better?

What would you readers of my blog like to see more of on here?

Leave a comment and let me know what you want to see?

Conversations about the FUTURE!

Current status: Eating my Halloween candy and sipping on this cold coffee...

Hey,

It is current 12:32 a.m. and I've been having a lot of conversations with myself and others about the future. I'm taking a business course this semester about the future, and it's making me think a lot more about mine. Of course I have dreams/goals/plans for my life! We should all have these 3 things in our life; however, how should you go about doing these things is the question?

I say the number 1 thing to remember in life is that you have to...at some point be FEARLESS! Rejection is such an asshole sometimes, but it can be a kind asshole at times too! The good thing about rejection is that it can either break you or make you stronger. I've been that person that was fearful of a lot of things, but the older I get, the less fearful I'm becoming. Being rejected has helped build my confidence, and now I've stronger to go for things I probably would have avoided years ago.

Question: What does your future look like to you, and how do you plan on getting there?

The second thing to keep in mind is that there's nothing wrong with dreaming big, but you have to set goals for those dreams. Denzel Washington recently spoke for students about having dreams. He said, "dreams without goals are just dreams." For me, I dreamed of acting, having my own blog and radio show...now I have those things. I got over the "fear of rejection" and I set a goal for my dreams. My intent for my blogs/radio show isn't to have huge success, but just to have started something that I never thought in my wildest dreams I'd be doing.

For my career goal is to become a Physical Therapist! I'm currently in school working towards my goals right now. I'm taking the necessary steps at this moment to get there (volunteering/research/contacting different schools, etc). By taking the steps to achieve my goal for my career gives me clarity as to what I'm doing now. Everything I'm doing in school is building up for grad school and beyond! The more I educate myself in my field, the more I will know upon attending grad school.

I watched a video today about dreaming big, but focusing small: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3w7y0Rg_SY I think this video is a great tip in life.

Lastly, don't forget to have fun on your journey in life! As someone that enjoys laughter and fun in their life, I say everyone should do so as well. Make sure that the life you choose to live will be worth living! You don't want to look back at life saying shoulda, woulda, but didn't, right?

In the end, GOD has already written our journey out, though we think we are in control.

I'm no life expert, I'm just living each day the best I can. "Failing to plan is a plan to failure"..my dad always says that!

I hope you have enjoyed reading this post. I'd love to hear your input on this topic. Do you agree? Do you look at this topic differently?

Thanks for reading,

Nisha :)

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! RADIO SEGMENT SPECIAL 11-11:30p EST www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!

I'm so excited today because it's one of my favorite times of the year to watch scary movies, eat candy and dress up (occasionally)!

If you aren't out and about tonight, I hope you're able to tune into my special segment tonight www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofiler

Tonight's segment will be some scary stories, embarrassing stories, favorite Halloween moments, favorite movies I love to watch during the month of Halloween, etc.


Check it out!!!

first time going out trick or treating..raised Muslim so at 24, I had to make up for the lost years O_O WANT SOME?

Bat girl...

Update

Hey loves,

I wanted to give you a quick update on what's been going on with me in my world. School!!!! This month has been the craziest as far as school is concerned and I can't wait for it to be over. My work hours are all over the place too because it's the Halloween season, and our hours extended. But I wanted to take some time from blogging and radio to focus more time into studying and getting assignments out the way early because I want to do a couple cool blog post, and do some more radio segments.

How are you doing? What's been going on in your world? Do you celebrate Halloween? If so, what are you planning on being? I may do a Halloween segment depending on what happens that day...school, trick or treating with the kids, etc. But, I don't want to leave you with anything.

Also, I wanted to do a giveaway on this blog..I just don't know what to give so I'd love some ideas. I have gotten a lot of buzz on this blog, and I wanted to say a huge THANK YOU! I'm just doing what I love!


Well, I'm going to go hang out with this book I have to read for my business class.

Check out my radio show: www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter

My other blog: coffeenofilterwithdenisha.blogspot.com

<3,

Nisha

WEDNESDAY RADIO SHOW CHANGED TO FRIDAY! TIME TBA----> CHECK FACEBOOK: COFFEENOFITLERWITHDENISHA FOR DETAILS!

UPDATE: I WILL BE POSTING PART 2 FALL SHOWS 2014 (UPDATE) SEGMENT SATURDAY OCTOBER 11, 2014 @ MIDNIGHT!!!!!

I COULDN'T DO BACK TO BACK SEGMENTS! SO IF YOU WANT TO LISTEN TO PART 1 NOW, GO TO BLOGTALKRADIO.COM/COFFEENOFILTER ! DON'T FORGET TO LISTEN PART 2 LIVE!!! 

WANNA BE ON THE SHOW? CALL (347) 989-8431

SO...TODAY IS WEDNESDAY! THAT MEANS IT'S SUPPOSE TO BE AN UPLOAD ON MY RADIO SHOW, RIGHT? IT'S BEEN POSTPONED UNTIL THIS FRIDAY! I HAVEN'T SET THE TIME, BUT IF YOU CHECK IN ON MY FACEBOOK OR TWITTER, I WILL LET YOU KNOW THE TIME! (LINKS FOR BOTH BELOW)


SHORT STORY: My acting professor assigned different scenes for groups in our class, and my group presents on Monday. We aren't prepared, so I'm in the process or going over my lines for rehearsal tomorrow. *cough* PROCRASTINATION! I'm less nervous about it now since I'm actually starting to remember my lines.

This has become a very busy month for me, so please bare with me. EDUCATION COMES FIRST!! I just wanted to let you know in case you go to listen and nothing is there.

FRIDAY WILL BE A FALL SHOWS UPDATE! MY LAST YEAR SEGMENTS WERE VERY POPULAR, SO I FIGURED WITH ALL THE SHOWS COMING ON TO DO AN UPDATE! NOW I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO WATCH A LOT OF THEM, BUT I DON'T WANT TO GIVE ANYTHING AWAY, SO IT ACTUALLY WORKED OUT! I HAVE TO SAY I'M VERY EXCITED WITH THE LIST OF SHOWS I HAVE TO TALK ABOUT! AND THERE'S GOING TO BE 2 PARTS BECAUSE THERE'S SO MUCH TO TALK ABOUT! YOU CAN ALSO CALL INTO THE SHOW! I WILL HAVE THOSE DETAILS ON MY FACEBOOK AS WELL!

YOU CAN LISTEN TO THE SEGMENT AT THIS WEBSITE: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO CHECK OUT MY OTHER SEGMENTS THERE AS WELL! ZOMBIE APOCALYPSE SEGMENT WAS FUN TO DO!

HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS? LET ME KNOW BECAUSE I'D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!

HOPE YOUR WEEK IS GOING WELL! I'M GONNA GO AND CONTINUE TO READ OVER MY LINES!

SEE YA COFFEE ADDICTS,

DENISHA

FACEBOOK: COFFEENOFILTERWITHDENISHA

TWITTER: @NINIBONITACHICA

New Topics? 0_0 HELP ME PLEASE!

What should be my next topic?

1. My essentials during a Zombie Apocalypse
2. Fall Shows (updated)
3. Favorite hair products (current)
4. Why I wanna be Canadian?
5. Ebola! That s**t has hit the fan...but I called it!
6. Monthly to-do list
7. Audience Choice

I'M WONDERING WHAT I SHOULD TALK/WRITE ABOUT TODAY! I MAY JUST PLACE THEM IN A HAT AND DRAW FROM IT...GOT A BETTER IDEA, LET ME KNOW BY COMMENTING!

I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!

Hey, how are you today/tonight? Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to read this post! I wanted to help keep you updated on some new things I've been doing via internet. If you haven't checked out my last blog post, I mentioned that I started a radio show last year called 'CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha'! It's an online radio show, so all my viewers (around the world) can tune in to the show. Now, I don't have a scheduled time for when I post new segments on the show. On my other blog 'CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha', I asked what time would be best for you to listen live. I hadn't received any feedback, so I'm guessing those that do listen, it's easier to listen to a recording. I'd love to have listeners call in from time to time because I like conversing with people, and you never know I may have a little giveaway here and there since the holiday season is coming soon.

Also my CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha blog is up and I started posting content that's related/not so related to the radio show too. If you'd like me to talk about a certain topic, certain giveaway, or whatever let me know on my Facebook page or here...

INTERACTION
I want to get to know my audience more and more! I think I mentioned in my last radio segment that I saw people from around the world are reading my blog. I appreciate it 100% and I would love to hear from you! What's going on in your world that you want me to know about. Do you blog or do anything online that you want to share? I'd love to see it, so feel free to leave a comment or send an email (if you're shy)!

Radio Show
blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter

Follow me on Facebook
coffeenofilterwithdenisha

Follow my other blog
coffeenofilterwithdenisha.blogspot.com

I'M BACK AND I BRING GIFTS!!!

Long time, no new post!

Hey everyone,

Good to be back and in action with the blogging. I don't know why I decided to stop writing my thoughts out, and letting the world inside my head. I've noticed that people around the world have stopped by to read my blog and I'm SHOCKED BEYOND BELIEF that I've touched you all with words. I appreciate the support, and I hope to continue the conversation with you!

In other news, it's close to the end for 2014, and some has changed since the last time I've posted...not much but some. Still in school and yeah it's been a journey, lots of ups and downs...trying to find my calling in the world and all.


And speaking of blogging, I created a new blog called 'CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha' on blogspot. Here's the link: coffeenofilterwithdenisha.blogspot.com Though I have a new blog, I didn't want to leave this one hanging, so I'm definitely planning on keeping this up and running since people still look at it. But show some love to my new blog and let me know what you'd like to hear me talk about next. I've said before I didn't want to dip into politics, but there's a lot of stuff in the world that needs talking about. I may add content on those issues on both blogs, so I will keep you updated if I do.

RADIO
Yeah, I've decided to let the world hear my voice. Being on the airwaves has always been a dream of mine, and with the encouragement from family/friends I went for it. It's not a fancy radio show, but hell I can say whatever I want (PG-13 and sometimes Rated R). It's also called 'CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha'. Here's the link for that just in case you've read my blog for a while, or new and want to hear my BEAUTIFUL VOICE! www.blogtalkradio.com/coffeenofilter LOL, my radio show sounds like it's on the A.M. frequency for some strange reason, but I can live with it. It's been so much fun just talking about whatever I want.

Why the Name?
If you don't know, I'm a COFFEE LOVER! I love to brew my own coffee and make various coffee drinks. I occasionally go to coffee shops and Starbucks (some will debate on that). I've always dreamed of having a coffee shop, and how it would be a 90s themed environment. I listen to music on Pandora EVERYDAY, and the music I'm really into inspires me to day dream about it. Who knows, maybe I will have one, one day...
The "NO filter" comes from my mouth and saying whatever the heck I want to out of it. It's more of a personality thing than just for kicks. If you were to have a conversation with my dad, I think you would put the two together rather quickly.
There you have it CoffeeNOfilter with Denisha was born...well it was always there, I just decided to use the two together.

I MISS YOU!!!!!!
You know that warm feeling you get when you bite into a warm cookie that just came out the oven? It's all hot, but soft and it just melts in your mouth...THAT'S HOW I FEEL ABOUT YOU ALL! Did I just call you a cookie...Yes, and I miss my warm cookies...however, if you listen to my radio show, I will call you a coffee addict, but just know my first love is the cookie. Because, I had the cookie before the coffee. Oh, first loves, first blog supporters. #teaminternet

Let's Continue the Conversation
I'm crazy about having discussions with people whose opinion is like mine, or completely different. I'd love to hear from you. Leave a comment, send an email, call into the radio show! Send me some love back! I didn't know I was being seen from around the world, and it still BLOWS MY MIND!

Well I'm currently brainstorming a segment for my radio show. HINT: Brains. I will most likely post a segment tomorrow EST! The great thing about my the site that I use is that you can listen to my old and new stuff whenever. I have plenty of content for you to listen to. If you know of any new music I could use for my show let me know. Or if you have music you'd like me to use on the show, drop me a line on my Facebook page: facebook.com/coffeenofilterwithdenisha. I'm all about supporting people and why not because EVERYONE CAN HAVE A PIECE OF THE SUCCESS PIE! GRAB A KNIFE AND GET HOWEVER BIG OF A SLICE YOU WANT. THERE'S PLENTY TO GO AROUND!

Love you cookies and hopefully coffee addicts,

Denisha